Hurray Its a girl! When a male hear it from the gynecologist, his happiness was boundless! Because he knows, his daughter's first love is going to me none other, Its himself! Now as a Mother of my young little girl, I had few expectation how my husband should be.
1. Be a Warrior! Protect her!!
My husband should be the real head of the family, Real head means he should be a warrior in battle, who struggles for country's happiness. Here Struggle does not meant to fight, Its like providing a secured, emotional and moral support for his wife and kid.
2. Teacher!!!
Naah surely does not mean a man with stick and chalk .It does not value how smart my husband is, if his knowledge is not ready to get shared with my kid, He should be a teacher. He should share his knowledge , moral values with my kid so that she herself starts taking decision.
3. Treat me as Queen!!
Hae man its not a selfish thought of mine!! This is to lay a strong foundation in your daughter's heart about your son in law's care for her and to your son its a role model how to treat his wife. So Its must you should be a good care taker towards your relationship with your wife.
4. God Exists!!
Be a spiritual leader man, Teach her that god truly exists and he keeps watching us, So that when your kid loses all the support in this world still she/he have hope that world exists because god exists still.
5.Be a kid!!
Hae man you are grownup but not my kid. Be patient, Possess good tolerance. I wish as if my husband loses some 20 years from his current age, so that he gives better company to my kid. Yup kid expects child like thoughts from parents. Nothing gonna work out in teaching them something that is more than their age.
6. Guide my kid on what she is!
I wish my husband is to guide my kid on what she s really interested, I don't want my husband to make my girl fed up in future towards what he wished in his life to do. I dont want an ambitious kid , I want a talented kid, and want a help from him. Our kids are not you or me, stick to this reality.
7. Let my kid makes mistake!!
I am a women who believes mistakes are the stepping stone of success, so please let her do mistakes. End of each mistake gives a solution, that helps in decision making. Let her decide what to do and what not to do? But to certain level, guide her to solve the mistake.
8. Spend time please!
we don't bother how much you earn, how much you sleep, how much you have good time with your friends, The time you spent with us is the quality time we measure with.
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