Daughters are almighty of gods, princesses destined to be queens, wonderful story in everybody life, out of all they are humans. The way she is grown matters a lot. Raising a daughter is raising a very big wall that this society cant break it out.
The message we give girls is that they are 'good' only if they are not doing any 'bad' things such as doing drugs, having sex or hanging around with the wrong crowd. Many parents approach a girl who attained her puberty as ordeal, believing they can only watch helplessly as their lovable girl turns out into unpredictable monster. Instead of expecting all the worst to happen for girl you can focus on her interest, believe them to such extend they should feel guilty of doing something wrong. Every parent should open new way of communication to reconnect with young girls.
Good life for a girl doesn't come after getting married. It truly comes when a girl professionally succeed in her career. She should be respected in this society. If u educate a woman we educate a family. Marriage is not a girl's destiny, please don't fed up a girl with family responsibilities, till she reaches a good financial independence and career. Girls are not meant for males lust, and not a slave to a male's family. Don't teach her do's and don'ts in her mother in laws home instead her do's and don'ts in a corporate society. Make her an entrepreneur.
The word sex is polished in this society like a word an unmarried women should never ever hear. Its a very wrong aspect. Every girls should know the difference between a good touch and bad touch. If not she is well educated about the sex then she fell as prey to rapist. Indian women are worshiped as goddess in India but at the same time hourly rape cases are also filed here in India. Rapists are not given proper punishments too. Never say your daughter to wear dress properly instead teach every male to see women as a god is a very kind note to all here. I wish to share an article that I read where an women expressed her view how she felt U.S as heaven when she traveled out of country after experiencing some harassment( given the link below)
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/nri/citizen-journalists/citizen-journalists-reports/pragyan-debadarshini/Growing-up-as-a-woman-in-India-and-living-in-US/articleshow/23812006.cms
1.Expecting the worst!
The message we give girls is that they are 'good' only if they are not doing any 'bad' things such as doing drugs, having sex or hanging around with the wrong crowd. Many parents approach a girl who attained her puberty as ordeal, believing they can only watch helplessly as their lovable girl turns out into unpredictable monster. Instead of expecting all the worst to happen for girl you can focus on her interest, believe them to such extend they should feel guilty of doing something wrong. Every parent should open new way of communication to reconnect with young girls.
2. Teach her to be an entrepreneur and not a daughter in law!
Good life for a girl doesn't come after getting married. It truly comes when a girl professionally succeed in her career. She should be respected in this society. If u educate a woman we educate a family. Marriage is not a girl's destiny, please don't fed up a girl with family responsibilities, till she reaches a good financial independence and career. Girls are not meant for males lust, and not a slave to a male's family. Don't teach her do's and don'ts in her mother in laws home instead her do's and don'ts in a corporate society. Make her an entrepreneur.
3. Sex is not a bad word!
The word sex is polished in this society like a word an unmarried women should never ever hear. Its a very wrong aspect. Every girls should know the difference between a good touch and bad touch. If not she is well educated about the sex then she fell as prey to rapist. Indian women are worshiped as goddess in India but at the same time hourly rape cases are also filed here in India. Rapists are not given proper punishments too. Never say your daughter to wear dress properly instead teach every male to see women as a god is a very kind note to all here. I wish to share an article that I read where an women expressed her view how she felt U.S as heaven when she traveled out of country after experiencing some harassment( given the link below)
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/nri/citizen-journalists/citizen-journalists-reports/pragyan-debadarshini/Growing-up-as-a-woman-in-India-and-living-in-US/articleshow/23812006.cms
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